Reply to "Being Gay(ish)"

Frisco, I have known you for many years. And over the years I have called you by many names, but I don't think that any of them have fit more than when I called you "homosexually questionable."

For those of you who don't know; the definition of homosexually questionable is that we know that he is going to be gay, but we don't know when. It is always assumed that he will be gay, but every once in a while, he will say something completely hetero and catch us all off guard...

But that is besides the point... The point is, you have a wider range of options than I do in the dating scene, as well as the fact that you have probably had more actual dating experience than I have.

One other thing... on the Oprah quote... if you "love yourself" please keep it to yourself... (sorry bud, couldn't resist the joke)

But I believe that my biggest problem with online dating... is the dreaded first message... you never know what to say... you always end up rambling on... much like this post...

Also, Frisco... one more thing to you... with you looking for other men, it is a toss up on who will send that first message. He may send you one or you can send him one... but for a straight man... unless you have a six pack and post many shirtless photos... she isn't making the first move...

Toys

"I don't want to grow up, I'm a Toy's R Us Kid"

Who HASN'T seen that commercial?

Personally I have seen it so much that sometimes I can't get that stupid jingle out of my head.

Some people, I think have seen it so much, that it's now been ENGRAVED in their head and they seriously NEVER grown up.

Now ain't that some shit?

These people have gotten so used to not growing up, that they still treat people like TOYS.

New's flash people, its time to grow the fuck up.

I am not made of fucking plastic, (even though some people might have some plastic parts), but I will not be treated like a piece of shit toy you can just play with when you feel like and cast aside when you get bored.

I am worth way more than that $12 bucks you paid for your little action figure.

If you want some action, you need to spend way more than that for me!

Now I'm not just talking money, because I can pay for my own shit, I have a job, I have a home,
what I need you to do is spend more time and effort to make this work.

You are not a Toy's R Us Kid anymore.

It's time to grow up kid.

Much love,

Me